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Post by jerseyboy on Jun 13, 2010 2:23:30 GMT -5
So I went out to the city tonight and tried approaching every girl I met. I basically said
"hey I think you are beautiful can I call you"
Most of them didn't even acknowledge me.... one girl even told me to go to hell
I really don't understand what I am doing wrong. I am confident and I dont think I am ugly. I see ugly guys with hot girls all the time
I must have approached 20 girls tonight and I got shot down each time
Help!!!!!!
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Post by lauralove on Jun 13, 2010 18:02:56 GMT -5
Of course you are failing. Us women can tell when a guy is just using a line. A little clue but when we are approached we want to feel unique, not just as a number
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Post by NO MAAM on Jun 28, 2010 15:20:06 GMT -5
So I went out to the city tonight and tried approaching every girl I met. I basically said "hey I think you are beautiful can I call you" Most of them didn't even acknowledge me.... one girl even told me to go to hell It's obvious why you failed. You validated her physical beauty - something she has no control over - and then asked for her number as a reward for your generous validation. You probably would have had a better chance to get some numbers had you complimented her choice of wardrobe, perfume, or how she styled her hair. Women like to be complimented on these things because they spend so much time on them. I personally do not like the idea of telling a girl she is beautiful. It makes her feel sooo special as she flat out rejects you
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Jul 2, 2010 10:27:49 GMT -5
My first thoughts if someone came up to me with those lines would be "creeper". Find something unique to the girl if you feel a compliment is best. And don't ask for a number outright unless you're at an event where mingling is close to impossible.
If you go out with one or two guys, maybe you can develop a sort of question to approach her with to start conversation. "Hey, can you settle a bet for us?..." and develop some funny conversation starter. It's attention grabbing and if she has a decent personality, it will come through.
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Post by Zero Cool on Jul 18, 2010 21:29:21 GMT -5
Just do like marlon wayans did. He put a gun to her head and screamed " give me your Fu(king number". That or follow no maams advice or the variation. Use a negative and then spin it.
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