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Post by ra2k10 on Jul 27, 2010 17:08:29 GMT -5
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Post by lauralove on Jul 31, 2010 0:49:37 GMT -5
one of my good friends had a kid. If you really like someone then a kid shouldn't change your opinion of them!
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Post by NO MAAM on Jul 31, 2010 17:02:48 GMT -5
Date? Yes. Anything more? It would really depend. I think under these circumstances, you really have to assess your goals in terms of family. Do you want to have kids that you helped to create? If so, you could be taking on quite a lot of responsibility with a large family already in place, and more to be added once some sperm is introduced into the love canal and marches its way up the right path. By the way, if a guy is so inclined as to have super sperm, watch out as the blessed event could be a double or triple header  |
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Post by marley on Aug 4, 2010 2:06:25 GMT -5
If YOU had a kid, should anyone date you? I have dated someone with a kid and I would do it again. You are dating the person and building a relationship with them. The child comes second in the relationship unless things progress even further.
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Aug 5, 2010 15:58:00 GMT -5
I'd have to realy like the guy to have a relationship with him. I'm not very kid friendly...though it would be a relief that he already has an heir. LOL
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Post by breemarie on Mar 15, 2011 21:48:19 GMT -5
absolutely...just cuz someone has a kid does not mean that they should be quarantined from the chance at love...two of my exes have kids and i would definitely date a guy with kids
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Post by manderz0516 on Mar 16, 2011 22:56:44 GMT -5
Absolutely...i have a soln myself and someone didnt want to date me because of him....they dont deserve me or my son!!! just because someone has a kid shouldnt make a difference!! love is love with or without a kid in the picture!!!
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Post by pickupmilitia on Mar 17, 2011 13:30:59 GMT -5
Absolutely...i have a soln myself and someone didnt want to date me because of him....they dont deserve me or my son!!! just because someone has a kid shouldnt make a difference!! love is love with or without a kid in the picture!!! Thanks for sharing Manderz. You have the right attitude. What are your experiences dating guys? Have you met a lot of them that don't date you cause you have a son? Are the open about it.. or do you find out later? |
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Mar 21, 2011 17:05:18 GMT -5
Welcome breemarie and Manderz! It shouldn't matter, but for some of us, it does. I respect someone more for declining outright than getting involved too far before they realize they aren't ready to have a kid in their life regularly. I see both sides. For me, it just boils down to what each party is expecting out of the date and how far things may go.
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Post by carlos on Mar 28, 2011 10:28:10 GMT -5
unnecessary problems for those who wait until marriage to have sex
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Apr 5, 2011 12:45:13 GMT -5
Seriously carlos...you're just being a preachy troll.
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