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Post by ra2k10 on Aug 31, 2010 19:38:31 GMT -5
Are girls who use guys for free drinks worse than guys who use girls for sex? Lets hear your opinion
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Post by ra2k10 on Aug 31, 2010 19:39:22 GMT -5
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Post by pickupmilitia on Aug 31, 2010 19:43:54 GMT -5
This was covered in the other thread. Mr A. basically said guys were worse because they are messing with a woman's emotions as opposed to being cheated for a few dollars. NO MAAM felt that girls were worse because losing money on buying the girl went beyond monetary loss to a shot at their self respect.
I would love to hear more from both posters are they both had solid backings to their views. Maybe this thread is the best place to start the topic off fresh!
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Post by crashoverride on Aug 31, 2010 21:21:19 GMT -5
I have been meaning to weigh in on this one.... I have read the different point of views regarding this.....
I think that when a guy buys drinks for a girl it isn't always with the intention of "I want to get laid". I would think often enough that perhaps the guy genuinely wants to get to know her. Now if a girl strings a guy along... boosts his ego and his hope, only to have them both deflate later on... well then that is definitely cruel,classless, and egregious. This is in my humble opinion of course
Now if a guy ends up chatting a girl up and they click, regardless of whether he buys her drinks or not.... and lets say they end up having consensual sex.... well then even if the guy never calls her back it was still a decision the woman made for instant gratification.
I think it ultimately comes down to how one views sex.... is it a natural biological need or something that should have a moral emphasis around it?
I feel a lot of people forget that women enjoy sex and the act of it is less repressed these days...
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Post by Zero Cool on Sept 14, 2010 23:35:46 GMT -5
Not all males are sex driven hormone fiends. I can say that because I'm not. When I interact with a female, sex isn't the primary objective. Do I enjoy it. Absolutely. Can I live without it. No. Can I go long periods of time without it. Yes.
Most "drink whores" do bs like that for attention. They flirt a little bit, and then run back to their equally dimwitted friends who in the end will end up marrying some sucker who doesn't respect them.
Please, it's crap to think that sex crazed men are worse. I'm a straight male and I can pick them out a mile away. Women are supposed to be more observant. If you can't pick one of those meatheads out in a club, stick to eharmony and don't bother. Drink whores, on the otherhand, blend in very well. But after a few moments you can pick them out.
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