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Post by carlos on Oct 21, 2010 15:49:10 GMT -5
The reason most relationships and marriages fail is because of premarital sex.
nuff said
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Post by lauralove on Oct 25, 2010 18:36:57 GMT -5
That is a pretty outlandish thing to say considering most couples do have sex before marriage in this day and age.
are you a virgin carlos?
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Post by carlos on Oct 30, 2010 0:22:39 GMT -5
No but I am married. When people treat sex like a sport and change partners it becomes meaningless. When you do it with 1 person then it means the world.
Since so many people have premarital sex i could not expect them to relate to what i am saying.
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Post by crashoverride on Nov 4, 2010 9:55:19 GMT -5
Carlos I have to ask, but what religion are you?
Those that are against pre-marital sex tend be for religious reasons. As Laura states, pre-marital sex is so prevalent that most efforts promoting a cessation of it for the masses will more than likely be done in vain...
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Post by carlos on Nov 8, 2010 22:13:15 GMT -5
I am a proud Mormon.
What it comes down to is that couples that have sex before marriage cheapen the act which then make it become a task rather than enjoyment. This leads to dissatisfaction and more often than not, cheating....
A big reason for the high divorce rate
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Post by ra2k10 on Nov 11, 2010 21:41:48 GMT -5
carlos sex is good before marriage....you get some before marriage you see if you and your girl is compatible with each other..also you learn how you make you and your girl happy every night....good relationship starts with good sex and trust each other
:D
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Post by Zero Cool on Nov 14, 2010 22:18:16 GMT -5
I am a proud Mormon. What it comes down to is that couples that have sex before marriage cheapen the act which then make it become a task rather than enjoyment. This leads to dissatisfaction and more often than not, cheating.... A big reason for the high divorce rate incorrect my latter day friend. The reason for high divorce rate is female independence. Now before Lauralove has a stroke and flames me all over the board. Let me explain: with increased woman participation in employment, gyms etc. Women have begun to evolve into almost power hungry and closed minded species. In relationships, a woman will leave a man for something stupid after listening to a beyonce song. While I agree that women should have equal rights, they should also realize that they have responsibilities when it comes to having said rights. Example, they can't pick a fight with someone at a bar, and then hide behind a man to protect them if whoever they were flapping their gums to stands up. Your mouth wrote the check, now your ass can cash it. A large percentage of divorces are initiated by women, over mostly bs disagreements. They took " other fish in the sea" too literally and don't want to work hard at maintaining said relationship. Don't believe me, google it. |
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Post by crashoverride on Nov 16, 2010 9:46:57 GMT -5
I am a proud Mormon. What it comes down to is that couples that have sex before marriage cheapen the act which then make it become a task rather than enjoyment. This leads to dissatisfaction and more often than not, cheating.... A big reason for the high divorce rate incorrect my latter day friend. The reason for high divorce rate is female independence. Now before Lauralove has a stroke and flames me all over the board. Let me explain: with increased woman participation in employment, gyms etc. Women have begun to evolve into almost power hungry and closed minded species. In relationships, a woman will leave a man for something stupid after listening to a beyonce song. While I agree that women should have equal rights, they should also realize that they have responsibilities when it comes to having said rights. Example, they can't pick a fight with someone at a bar, and then hide behind a man to protect them if whoever they were flapping their gums to stands up. Your mouth wrote the check, now your ass can cash it. A large percentage of divorces are initiated by women, over mostly bs disagreements. They took " other fish in the sea" too literally and don't want to work hard at maintaining said relationship. Don't believe me, google it. You are exalted by me brother. |
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Post by pickupmilitia on Dec 3, 2010 11:14:25 GMT -5
Sex before marriage is a prerequisite!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1. You find out if you are sexually compatible
2. You get to have sex
3. You get to have sex!
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Post by pickupmilitia on Dec 26, 2010 23:01:13 GMT -5
I'm glad nobody has a rebuttal!
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Post by jerseyboy on Jan 2, 2011 23:05:46 GMT -5
Anyone that doesn't believe in sex before marriage is more than not for religious reasons.
Carlos if you are out there please explain more of your view against this great act of lust!
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Post by carlos on Jan 31, 2011 20:11:11 GMT -5
I am a proud Mormon. What it comes down to is that couples that have sex before marriage cheapen the act which then make it become a task rather than enjoyment. This leads to dissatisfaction and more often than not, cheating.... A big reason for the high divorce rate incorrect my latter day friend. The reason for high divorce rate is female independence. Now before Lauralove has a stroke and flames me all over the board. Let me explain: with increased woman participation in employment, gyms etc. Women have begun to evolve into almost power hungry and closed minded species. In relationships, a woman will leave a man for something stupid after listening to a beyonce song. While I agree that women should have equal rights, they should also realize that they have responsibilities when it comes to having said rights. Example, they can't pick a fight with someone at a bar, and then hide behind a man to protect them if whoever they were flapping their gums to stands up. Your mouth wrote the check, now your ass can cash it. A large percentage of divorces are initiated by women, over mostly bs disagreements. They took " other fish in the sea" too literally and don't want to work hard at maintaining said relationship. Don't believe me, google it. been a bit since I checked back here. I find what you wrote to be profound. Where I live in Utah most women still know their place. The ones that end up divorcing are the loose ones. Most successful marriages are when both parties wait for sex. Both man and woman |
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Feb 9, 2011 8:05:18 GMT -5
On the opposite end of that spectrum Carlos, I feel that there are people who feel SO strongly about waiting until they are married to have sex, that they rush into marriage, ultimately ending in divorce.
As we evolve and the world changes, certain acts don't carry the same damning stigma as they did 100 - 1000 years ago. I think everyone just has to do what is right for them.
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Post by crashoverride on Feb 10, 2011 17:00:19 GMT -5
As we evolve and the world changes, certain acts don't carry the same damning stigma as they did 100 - 1000 years ago. I think everyone just has to do what is right for them. I think this hits the nail on the head Jill. For those that love to quote the Good Book, there used to be a time where man was permitted to have concubines. So polygamy existed before monogamy... |
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Post by carlos on Feb 18, 2011 17:59:35 GMT -5
On the opposite end of that spectrum Carlos, I feel that there are people who feel SO strongly about waiting until they are married to have sex, that they rush into marriage, ultimately ending in divorce. As we evolve and the world changes, certain acts don't carry the same damning stigma as they did 100 - 1000 years ago. I think everyone just has to do what is right for them. This is absolutely absurd Jill. Waiting for marriage to have sex causes divorces?!?!?!?!??!?!?!??!?!?! You need to stop living in a fantasy world trying to justify your immoral behavior. You dont have to listen to me but just look at the statistics. People who wait for marriage have a lower divorce rate period. Its easy for you to say that the world is evolving and acts dont mean the same but look at how negative it has become because of this! The divorce rate is higher than ever, there are a lot of rampant diseases. wake up and see reality jill |
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