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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Jul 19, 2010 10:25:25 GMT -5
thats exactly the problem with u guys. you have no patience. Just because we aren't ready to kiss doesnt mean we never will be. This is how we ladies weed out the guys who are worth it and yet, they still pick the jerks. What is the age range of women you've had these experiences with? While it happens at any age, I witnessed a lot of my friends go from "all jerks" to the ocassional one as they got older. Not to generalize, but they young ladies tend to be trying men on for size, so to speak, and the jerks or bad boys are still appealling.
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Post by Zero Cool on Jul 19, 2010 18:09:48 GMT -5
and yet, they still pick the jerks. What is the age range of women you've had these experiences with? While it happens at any age, I witnessed a lot of my friends go from "all jerks" to the ocassional one as they got older. Not to generalize, but they young ladies tend to be trying men on for size, so to speak, and the jerks or bad boys are still appealling. And us men try women on for size to make sure they dont false advertise.
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Post by NO MAAM on Jul 19, 2010 21:00:20 GMT -5
While it happens at any age, I witnessed a lot of my friends go from "all jerks" to the ocassional one as they got older. Not to generalize, but they young ladies tend to be trying men on for size, so to speak, and the jerks or bad boys are still appealling. Gee, that sounds familiar. Where have I heard this before? Oh, now I remember I would guess that the "occasional jerk" is getting all the sex while there is one or a few "nice guys" taking the woman out to dinner, buying them gifts, and falling all over themselves in repeated futile attempts to get a simple... kiss
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Post by crashoverride on Jul 20, 2010 9:50:23 GMT -5
The interesting thing with this topic is that there's some girls that make it a rule not to kiss on the first date. Hell I even had a chick tell me the 2nd date was too soon after giving every f#*$(# sign you could get that she wanted to me kiss.
My hypothesis with these kind of girls is that they intend to wear the pants in the relationship. So if you want to be controlled yet have an attractive chick by your side the choice is ultimately yours.
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Post by NO MAAM on Jul 20, 2010 20:17:11 GMT -5
crashoverride, My hypothesis with these kind of girls is that they intend to wear the pants in the relationship. So if you want to be controlled yet have an attractive chick by your side the choice is ultimately yours. Are you suggesting that only attractive girls will not kiss on the first or second date and are also controlling? That sounds like a very broad generalization...
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Post by crashoverride on Jul 23, 2010 9:12:49 GMT -5
crashoverride, My hypothesis with these kind of girls is that they intend to wear the pants in the relationship. So if you want to be controlled yet have an attractive chick by your side the choice is ultimately yours. Are you suggesting that only attractive girls will not kiss on the first or second date and are also controlling? That sounds like a very broad generalization... My point is simply that a lot of girls that fall into this category tend to be attractive. That is probably the reason they feel a sense of entitlement. I'm not sure where you inferred that I was applying this to all attractive women of our population....
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Jul 25, 2010 9:11:23 GMT -5
Who are you guys dating that you are running into so many girls who have kissing rules?! I realize it's them and not you, but I've never heard of so many of this type of girl before.
Shit...if it feels right, do it.
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Post by Mr. A on Aug 7, 2010 13:40:39 GMT -5
It really depends on several things. What is each person looking for in the date, in the relationship? How intimate do they consider kissing? Do they consider it intimate at all. A prude to one person could be a whore to someone else.
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Post by jerseyboy on Aug 7, 2010 20:30:04 GMT -5
It really depends on several things. What is each person looking for in the date, in the relationship? How intimate do they consider kissing? Do they consider it intimate at all. A prude to one person could be a whore to someone else. I can understand that point.... but I think in American Culture kissing is pretty routine
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Post by Anonymous on Aug 9, 2010 23:57:18 GMT -5
When did this become a study on cultural differences in social behaviour?
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Aug 10, 2010 10:47:22 GMT -5
If I didn't like a guy enough to kiss him goodnight after the first date, I wouldn't have bothered to go out with him at all. But that's just me!
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Post by Anonymous on Aug 11, 2010 8:16:55 GMT -5
If I didn't like a guy enough to kiss him goodnight after the first date, I wouldn't have bothered to go out with him at all. But that's just me! How would you even know that if you haven't gone out with him and gotten to know him yet? Are you basing it all on looks and the possibly fake persons he might be putting out their? Not everyone truly is who they seem in public. Especially if they have hidden agendas. Sometimes you need to rally get to know someone, and who's to say you really do most of the time. Hopefully, most people ate honest, bit there are still too many phonies and wannabe playas out there.
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Post by crashoverride on Aug 11, 2010 8:33:07 GMT -5
If I didn't like a guy enough to kiss him goodnight after the first date, I wouldn't have bothered to go out with him at all. But that's just me! How would you even know that if you haven't gone out with him and gotten to know him yet? Are you basing it all on looks and the possibly fake persons he might be putting out their? Not everyone truly is who they seem in public. Especially if they have hidden agendas. Sometimes you need to rally get to know someone, and who's to say you really do most of the time. Hopefully, most people ate honest, bit there are still too many phonies and wannabe playas out there. You should make a screen name on here so that nobody impersonates your posts. But anyway in regards to kissing on the 1st date.... I understand your sentiment that people can be phony or have hidden agendas.... but my objection is more directed at girls who do "like" a guy but just won't kiss them on the 1st date because its "their rule" Look at the models Olga and Claudia for example. They say they won't do it as a rule.... This is where I have a problem because if 2 people are feeling each other its only natural to show physical affection
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Aug 11, 2010 9:59:10 GMT -5
If I didn't like a guy enough to kiss him goodnight after the first date, I wouldn't have bothered to go out with him at all. But that's just me! How would you even know that if you haven't gone out with him and gotten to know him yet? Are you basing it all on looks and the possibly fake persons he might be putting out their? Not everyone truly is who they seem in public. Especially if they have hidden agendas. Sometimes you need to rally get to know someone, and who's to say you really do most of the time. Hopefully, most people ate honest, bit there are still too many phonies and wannabe playas out there. Maybe I'm weird, but I wouldn't spend a few hours with someone I wasn't interested in. If I was going on a date with a guy, I know him in some capacity. Either, we've chatted on the phone or we've hung out with mutual friends/met at a party/etc. But yeah, if he was hot enough...I'd kiss him!
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Post by jerseyboy on Aug 17, 2010 18:11:25 GMT -5
Definitely Jill! Most of these girls that feel their shit don't stink and want to be treated like princesses end up settling for ugly douche bags anyway
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