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Post by jerseyboy on Jan 2, 2011 23:02:12 GMT -5
So the new model Marissa says she usually doesn't kiss on the 1st date... all that tells me is that if a guy has the right game she would. I think this applies to any girl really Yes but Olga says its her number 1 rule not to kiss.... women! |
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Post by pickupmilitia on Jan 5, 2011 11:44:43 GMT -5
So the new model Marissa says she usually doesn't kiss on the 1st date... all that tells me is that if a guy has the right game she would. I think this applies to any girl really Yes but Olga says its her number 1 rule not to kiss.... women! With good game this can be broken down. You have to get the girl to the point of where she is craving it. This is done by timely touching and romantic talk throughout your time together. I have kissed plenty of girls who claim they don't do it on the 1st date. Make sure the kiss is memorable! |
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Feb 9, 2011 8:48:07 GMT -5
I came back here after a few months and re-read this thread. Ultimately, I think everyone should be respectful of each other and do what feels right in the situation. A few of the guys feel that men should assert themselves like a kiss is mandatory. Don't cram your tongue down her throat, but go in for a kiss. If she doesn't, then she doesn't. It's up to you if you want to continue seeing her. As for the ladies who make it a rule to not kiss on the first date, some rules can be broken. If you really hit it off, give it a go!
Kissing isn't a Constitutional Amendment or Right. It should all be about respect. We aren't cavemen, beating and dragging someone to our cave. At least I hope you aren't.
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Post by crashoverride on Feb 10, 2011 16:57:45 GMT -5
This is true Jill. I think from the male perspective, the dilemma is whether or not they should move on from a chick who doesn't kiss on the 1st date.
In other words; by her not kissing on the first date despite there being perceived chemistry;
Would this be a red flag that the girl only expects you to play by her rules and thus is not worth it?
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Post by Regional Hotties "Jill" on Feb 16, 2011 11:50:19 GMT -5
All women are different. Sure, some women may make a rule like no kissing on the first date, just to see if she can wear the pants in the relationship and be the rule maker. Others may do it because of personal ideals/beliefs or as a means to keep from getting hurt. Now, how many times have you asked a girl out and she says "Pick me up at 7:30 and I don't kiss on the first date." Do you really know that rule going in? Doubtful. So if she drops that morsel of info on you mid-date, you have to make a character judgment. Is the date bombing and she's letting you know this is it? Or has it come up in a touchy conversation about exes and bad relationships. Feel it out and make your choice. Go in for the kiss and see what happens. Part of what makes dating exciting is the unknown. If she slaps you or doesn't take your calls, then she isn't the one for you. Maybe she'll like your initiative.
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Post by carlos on Mar 28, 2011 10:22:58 GMT -5
a woman with any kind of class will not kiss on the first date.
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